Sunday, October 15, 2006

Birth Story



Oct 3rd was like another normal day for me. I brought my mom and Evy to walk around the neighborhood since the weather was nice. Went to bed as usual, but awoke with some coughing and found I was leaking fluid. Thought I peed myself since I never had water broke on it's own before. Cleaned up and went to bed again but with a towel underneath just in case. Another burst of water few minutes later and started to think it might be my water broke. Went downstair to tell my hubby and it was around 12:30am. Called my birth center to let them know I was going to come in, packed up some last minute item, woke up my mom and Evy and headed to the hospital.

On the way to the hospital, around 1:30am, I started to have some contractions (not really painful). Reached the hospital at 2am, checked into Triage and got checked, I was already 5cm dilated and 90% effaced, and contractions around 3-5 mins apart. It took them awhile to get me a room and by the time they did, it was already 3am. Evy was too excited about the new baby coming that she couldn't sleep at all. I was having contractions on and off and the pain was manageable. Got checked again around 4:15am and I was only dilated to 6cm but fully effaced. I was thinking it must be awhile before I was going to have this baby since the progress was kinda slow. But my mom predicted I was going to have the baby at 5am.

But at around 4:45am, I knew I was in transition, I asked to be checked because the pain was very intense and it had moved to the back. I was right, I was at 8cm and half of my cervix was gone and the nurse rushed out to call the doc. on duty. I wanted to push around 5:05am but the nurse asked me not to push yet. The doc. came in at 5:10am and I was asked to push around 5:15am. After 4 contractions and pushing, the baby was out at 5:18am. I did it all without epidural or pain medication, so I felt the "Ring of Fire" through and through, it's the most painful thing I had experienced. No episiotomy this time, but a 2nd degree tear. My healing was so much easier and less painful from the last time.

Glad to experience both natural birth and birth with pitocin (induction with Evy) and gladly say that it's so much faster and less painful with natural birth then being induced with pitocin, so for the ladies out there, if you can hold on until your body is ready to have the baby, just wait it out, the contraction is soooooo much less frequent and less painful. Also, let it tear naturally instead of an episiotomy, talk to your OB/GYN about it because the healing is so much faster and less painful .



Lastly, sharing two more pictures of little Edda. She is still under the light treatment as her last blood test showed her level was still high. Will get check again on Monday.

19 comments:

Gracio said...

Wow! no wonder they say mothers are the most courageous & brave!Love this pic of baby Edda smiling,so adorable!

do take care & be in good health to both u & baby! :)

Precious Moments said...

ohhhhh! she is such a cutie with a nice dimple too.

Anonymous said...

Hi Ching,

Gald to hear u're recovering well... baby Edda is such a sweetie!

Ida

peitempo said...

She is just so calm. It must be great joy to have this new addition to the family. Again, Congratulations!

Anonymous said...

Ooooooooooh... What a precious, cute baby! Congrads again!

龍兒 said...

hi....1st time visit ur blog....

your baby so cute...^^

Peony said...

Baby is really so adorable n sweet.....love her little dimple...

how's your elder girl ?...must give more attention to her too....she must be very thrill to see her baby sis.

warm wishes to you and your family

Little Corner of Mine said...

Thanks all.

Evy shows some jealousy towards the baby of course and has been clingy to her daddy. She wants to play with everything belong to the baby, even her carseat!

Anonymous said...

Hi Ching, Congratulations ! Edda is so adorable.

jc

Anonymous said...

Congratulation on your new born princess. She looks so cute... Surely she will become a beautiful lady in the future! :)

Tricia Lee-Chin said...

Edda is sooo cute! Hmmm...Looks like she knows how to pose already!!!

So, has daddy started to install locks yet on all the doors and windows??!!?! LOL!

Heard to help the older sibilling to overcome the jelousy is to have her participate in 'helping' with taking care of little sister.

Don't know if it works ... I only have a little boy. :P

Take Care!

Tricia Lee-Chin

Sherreen said...

Hi Ching..

Edda is so adorable....she smiles..

By the way..what's episiotomy?? Sorry I am new to that..

Little Corner of Mine said...

Thanks jc! :)

Little Corner of Mine said...

Thanks white_poplar, Tricia & Sherreen. :)

Sherreen, episiotomy is when the doc. cut you instead of letting it tear on its own. I had an episiotomy with Evy and I was in a lot of pain and it lasted for a week. With Edda, it's almost painless a few hours later.

jadepearl said...

Congrats!!!! Edda is tooooooooo cute!!!! Just want to kiss her cheeks!!! Mine was also natural birth but with epi and a long labour!

LittleHands said...

You're so brave, Ching. I opted in for episiotomy but later got cold feet and opted out again.

Edda's smile is so so sweet!!

Little Corner of Mine said...

Thanks JP and littlehands!

Jennifer said...

Hi, Congratulations on the birth of ur beautiful and most adorable baby.
I share ur experience of natural birth w/o epi for my 2nd child too.. fantastic feeling. Like u, the 1st child was a painful & frightening experience.
looking at ur baby makes me want to have number #3.... lol

Little Corner of Mine said...

Jennifer,
Thank you. So, is #3 going to be on the way? ;)